Many conflicts begin because we reach conclusions from only part of what we heard. Listening until the end respects both the truth and the person in front of us.
What We Hear May Not Be Everything
One sentence can have a context we do not know.
Listen to Understand, Not to Argue
When the mind is not busy preparing a reply, we can hear what the other person is actually saying.
A Dhamma Perspective
Mindfulness lets us notice the urge to judge and set it down for a moment.
What You Can Do Today
- Listen to one person without interrupting.
- Ask for clarification when unsure.
- Separate facts from your own opinions.
One Good Thing Today
Attentive listening can reduce misunderstanding more than adding more words.
Come Back Tomorrow
Listen more, and judge a little less.
