Trying to please everyone can make us forget our own true responsibilities. We can respect others without living according to every expectation they have.
Other People’s Expectations Can Differ
Some expectations may support what is good; others may simply exceed our capacity.
Separate Responsibility From Approval
Do your responsibilities as well as you can without taking responsibility for everyone’s feelings.
A Dhamma Perspective
Knowing our limits reduces attachment to praise and blame.
What You Can Do Today
- Clarify your most important responsibilities.
- Politely decline what exceeds your capacity.
- Do what is right without waiting for approval.
One Good Thing Today
You can be a good person without making everyone happy.
Come Back Tomorrow
Take responsibility for your part and put down what is not yours to carry.
